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Published on January 2, 2012 By Rightwinger In US Domestic

I was recently in a friendly--for the most part--discussion about gay marriage.

Now, I really have no valid opinion on the subject, but I will say that I don't think galaxies are going to explode, if gays and lesbians are given the right to say "I do". After all, in the words of the great country music legend/drag queen icon Dolly Parton, "They should have to suffer, right along with the rest of us."
And besides, I really don't think it's my place to judge them. What they do is between them and the God to whom they so cavalierly flip the finger.

It's their choice, it's their consequences. At least, that's how I see it.

However, because I made the statement that I didn't really agree with the homosexual "lifestyle", I was called a "hater".

Several times. Often vehemently.

Now, why am I a hater?

All I did, was to express an opinion; I don't "hate" gay people. My sister is a lesbian, and a very good friend is bi-sexual. The father of another good friend came out several years ago, and he and his "partner" are friends of ours, as well.

I simply disagree with how they live their lives. Is that so shameful and intolerant, really? 

I mean, I disagree with how drug addicts and theives live their lives too, but am I considered a hater for it? I don't think so....
And really, don't gays pretty much disagree with how I live my life, too, having that yucky natural, vaginal sex with someone of the opposite gender, and all.....ICK!

In fact, over the years, I've been derisively called a "breeder" and a "straight"; like there's something weird, or perverse about it. 
Why are they not considered haters, for that? For having that intolerant opinion about me, and what I do in my bedroom? For "hating on" my lifestyle?
Why do we allow political correctness to only go one way? If you understand what I mean, that is?
Why aren't both sides held to the same standard of decorum?

And you know, while I'm at it, speaking of hate, do atheists ever attack any other religions besides Christianity?
They can say the most ignorant, vile, hateful, despicable things about Jesus Christ and the faith He founded, but they never seem to tag other faiths as severely, if at all.

Why is that?

Maybe it's because we Christians are an easy target; we might defend our faith in a debate, but other than that, we won't fight back very hard. They know nothing will really happen to them, if they nastily belittle our beliefs.
I mean, it's not like we're going to issue a fatwa against them or anything, right?

And, they say these mean, hateful things because--as we all know--we're the haters. Not them. 

Funny how hypocrisy works, isn't it?

 


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on Jan 16, 2012

lulapilgrim
Another question?

If Matthew Shepard had AIDS and approached those two guys for sex and did have sex with them, and they got AIDS, should he be charged with a hate crime? Just wondering.

BoobzTwo
We have laws, human laws that allows us to deal with your hypothetical slander … what just because he was gay, you are not being curious here at all. Why don’t you at least attack someone alive and leave the unfortunate dead alone… in heaven. It never fails to amaze me … the ease with which you can manipulate a real life tragedy … to suit your intolerant views.

BT,

I posed a hypothetical question. No slander at all from me. I began the question with the word, "IF".

It's the same question if the words, "Matthew Shephard" is replaced that with "If a homosexual guy has AIDS..."

I think given the discussion it's a relevant question. Care to respond?

BoobzTwo
It never fails to amaze me … the ease with which you can manipulate a real life tragedy … to suit your intolerant views. Imagine whatever you want, whatever took place in that bar but the FACTS speak for themselves. You should be ashamed of this kind of behavior.

BoobzTwo
Sounds like you are about to step on your own homophobic foot …

I don't approve of homosexuality.   For that, you resort to name calling. 

BoobzTwo
You should be ashamed of this kind of behavior.

Back to you.

on Jan 16, 2012

lulapilgrim
Can you think of a good reason why the media coverage surrounding the murder of a "gay" college student Matthew Shepard should be any greater than the sadistic killing of 13 year old Jesse Dirkhising by two homosexual lovers in Arkansas?
Nope, I don't see any difference if the facts prove out ... but you like to overly 'embellish' things … I see … you should have read the whole article because it completely answers all your concerns (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Murder_of_Jesse_Dirkhising )  

"A red herring worth addressing at the outset is the failure to distinguish between homosexuality and pedophilia, which creates a false parallel at the core of the Washington Times argument. But sex with children is a crime regardless of the sexes involved, and is not synonymous with homosexuality.”  

Who do you think it was who argued against making this distinction … Mickey Mouse?

on Jan 16, 2012

lulapilgrim
I don't approve of homosexuality. For that, you resort to name calling.
What names??? What are you supposed to call people who dislike (unto hate) homosexuality? Catholics ... or maybe ... homophobic would do. You try and force issues like a child.

lulapilgrim
I think given the discussion it's a relevant question. Care to respond?
I did respond and you are still being foolishly demeaning. Sure I'll respond again: Let's say we take "Matthew Shephard’s" name out of your unprejudiced example and replace it with say “the Pope” and run it through for me, ok?

 

on Jan 17, 2012

Smoothseas

Quoting Dr Guy, reply 71There is a HUGE difference. You only have to look at the situations to see one is unjust, the other completely immoral.

There certainly are huge differences, but there are also similarities. Back in the day many of the things we now consider immoral and unjust were not viewed that way. However don't narrow your side of the argument to just slavery. I included woman's rights as well and even today many religions including some mainstream ones practiced in this country don't exactly treat women as equals now do they?

I highlighted your first sentence to show why I did not repeat myself.  There are huge differences between the suffragette movement and the cry of gays for equality of outcome.  Gays have the same rights.  There has never been laws that said "if you are gay, you lose XYZ".  But there were (and as you point out are) laws that affect women that way.

Gays claim they cannot marry those they love - but then neither can incestful people.  Society does not care if you are straight want to marry your sibling or if you are gay and want to.  So they live by the same laws.  They do not LIKE those laws, which is fine.  That is why they can be changed.  And have been in some places.

But they are not different laws.  They are the same.  That cannot be said for women or slaves.

on Jan 17, 2012

Dr Guy
They do not LIKE those laws, which is fine. That is why they can be changed. And have been in some places.

All though some may simply want to "change" laws and in some states that is the case, it is actually about whether some laws are constitutional to start with. DOMA specifically excluded gay couples from certain federal benefits and Prop 8 in California specifically excluded gay couples from marriage and the privileges and benefits tied to civil marriage in that state. It is a "game" and  people have been had because by creating laws that specifically exclude, the issue has been given two paths to the Supreme Court on very specific constitutional grounds. One that will affect federal law and one that will affect state laws and constitutions.

Be careful what you ask for will be the moral of this story.

on Jan 22, 2012

Oh Hello BoobzTwo, welcome back to the forums, good to see-yah.

 

So there are two basic ways to achieve power over others in terms of rights in a society.  The first is offense by directly attacking the rights of others like what happened in 1940s Germany for example.  The other is defense or what we call today as special rights or super rights.  Things like Hate speech meant to give one group unequal protections to the point of relatively reducing rights of others by comparison.  Crowding out others by invading their very own personal space via an unlevel playing field so to speak.

What the gay activist community is pushing for the second method.  You can't directly attack other people's rights in America (thank God) but you can elevate yourself into a concentrated leveraged elitist class over others thus eroding and diminishing the value of others' rights.

 

Now let's try to break things down to the common denominator.  Probably safe to say the gay activist movement is not accepting of Christian teaching and Christian teaching states that you are a child of God regardless of your sexual orientation.  The atheist teaching being the polar opposite that Evolution and Darwinism is the only truth of homosexuality.  If that is true then under Darwinism concerning natural selection, the existence of homosexual attraction is a dead end and has no place in the natural order according to Darwin.

on Jan 22, 2012

Hi Captain, nice to hear from you too. I do not think the gay community (who cares about the activists - same for the Churches’ equivalent) hates god per se ... they hate the 'religions and Churches' that promotes jihad on their way of life (right, wrong or otherwise) ... which seems reasonable. It doesn't matter if an evolutionary path is a dead end or not ... just one of millions who never made it ... but they all had their chance at survival and failed. Darwinism for lack of a better word doesn't pick the winners; they pick themselves through the trials and tribulations of survival in the natural world. We now have the technology to allow 'losers' a chance at survival which is not absolute Darwinism at all (whatever that is).

RogueCaptain
The atheist teaching being the polar opposite that Evolution and Darwinism is the only truth of homosexuality. If that is true then under Darwinism concerning natural selection, the existence of homosexual attraction is a dead end and has no place in the natural order according to Darwin.
And your only option is that god made them … are you sure you want to go there? What atheist teachings are you referring to here. I being an atheist should at least know my ‘atheist teachings’ are and since I only know of one ‘teaching’ maybe you could enlighten me here so I can ‘get in step’. The only “rule” I know is that we do not believe that gods exist… so please enlighten me. Maybe you could point out the atheist teaching schools and churches so I could check them out. I am personally tired and disgusted with the attacks on ‘atheism’ like it is some poisonous ‘church’ movement or whatever. This is as lame as an argument can get IMO. And as an example of how foolish this atheism nonsense is … just think it through to the end scenario and see what you conclude on the religion of ‘atheism’. I am not prepared to stipulate that I 'know where hiomosexuals came from ... but I will stipulate that it has been amongst us much longer that Christianity itself has ... so who is infringing on whoose human rights?

on Feb 04, 2012

Sorry, folks; my father-in-law passed away here a couple weeks or so ago, and I haven't gotten back here. I'll get to it. Sorry.

But you know what? Screw it....I've been scrolling through the posts, and this has turned from a discussion about my original topic into a hateful flame war, the lion's share of that hate coming from the supporters of homosexuality. Big surprise there; we all know how tolerant and respectful liberals are. The righties on here have all been respectful, from what I can see. Forget this.

You lefties are so hatefully intolerant in your tolerance, but you can't see it; it's hilarious. And hypocritical.
Thanks for once again reaffirming why I'm thankful I'm a conservative. When Western Civilization collapses, it'll be your fault, liberalism, not mine.

on Feb 04, 2012

Rightwinger
Sorry, folks; my father-in-law passed away here a couple weeks or so ago, and I haven't gotten back here. I'll get to it. Sorry.
Sorry to hear that ... death is seldom welcome, condolences. My cousin in under the care of hospice at home now and is not given very many days to live. He was a Christian when we were close (so was I though) so I can only hope he is at peace.

on Feb 04, 2012

Rightwinger; Let’s recap then … The lion's share of hate always appears to come from the 'other side’; otherwise there wouldn't be another 'side'.

Now, I really have no valid opinion on the subject
Ok so far.
in the words of the great country music legend/drag queen icon Dolly Parton
Humm, I don't think you like drag queens either.
And besides, I really don't think it's my place to judge them.
Fare so far. 
What they do is between them and the God to whom they so cavalierly flip the finger.
No bias here for sure.
And really, don't gays pretty much disagree with how I live my life, too, having that yucky natural, vaginal sex with someone of the opposite gender, and all.....ICK!
Nor here!
Why do we allow political correctness to only go one way? If you understand what I mean, that is?
I understand completely...
Why aren't both sides held to the same standard of decorum?
This must be a private joke???
And you know, while I'm at it, speaking of hate, do atheists ever attack any other religions besides Christianity?
Attack is not the word I would use but ... all the gods are applicical for sure. Did you think we had a favorite one?
They can say the most ignorant, vile, hateful, despicable things about Jesus Christ and the faith He founded, but they never seem to tag other faiths as severely, if at all
Nah ... no hate here. Care to list at least ONE???
Maybe it's because we Christians are an easy target
Another joke???
They know nothing will really happen to them, if they nastily belittle our beliefs.
And this has to do with what besides your insecurity???
I mean, it's not like we're going to issue a fatwa against them or anything, right?
Something like that...
And, they say these mean, hateful things because--as we all know--we're the haters. Not them.
Yep.
Funny how hypocrisy works, isn't it?
Yep.

And because of the above, I can hardly believe this.

I was recently in a friendly--for the most part--discussion about gay marriage.
And after all this Jesus love shit … all you have is this to say is -

"You lefties are so hatefully intolerant in your tolerance, but you can't see it; it's hilarious. And hypocritical. Thanks for once again reaffirming why I'm thankful I'm a conservative. When Western Civilization collapses, it'll be your fault, liberalism, not mine."

No, thank you … for clearing this matter up.

Now what were you saying about those rascally homosexuals and their nasty demeanor ... and their pesky atheist supporters?

on Feb 11, 2012

BoobzTwo
Hi Captain, nice to hear from you too. I do not think the gay community (who cares about the activists - same for the Churches’ equivalent) hates god per se ... they hate the 'religions and Churches' that promotes jihad on their way of life (right, wrong or otherwise) ... which seems reasonable. It doesn't matter if an evolutionary path is a dead end or not ... just one of millions who never made it ... but they all had their chance at survival and failed. Darwinism for lack of a better word doesn't pick the winners; they pick themselves through the trials and tribulations of survival in the natural world. We now have the technology to allow 'losers' a chance at survival which is not absolute Darwinism at all (whatever that is).


Quoting RogueCaptain, reply 81 The atheist teaching being the polar opposite that Evolution and Darwinism is the only truth of homosexuality. If that is true then under Darwinism concerning natural selection, the existence of homosexual attraction is a dead end and has no place in the natural order according to Darwin.And your only option is that god made them … are you sure you want to go there? What atheist teachings are you referring to here. I being an atheist should at least know my ‘atheist teachings’ are and since I only know of one ‘teaching’ maybe you could enlighten me here so I can ‘get in step’. The only “rule” I know is that we do not believe that gods exist… so please enlighten me. Maybe you could point out the atheist teaching schools and churches so I could check them out. I am personally tired and disgusted with the attacks on ‘atheism’ like it is some poisonous ‘church’ movement or whatever. This is as lame as an argument can get IMO. And as an example of how foolish this atheism nonsense is … just think it through to the end scenario and see what you conclude on the religion of ‘atheism’. I am not prepared to stipulate that I 'know where hiomosexuals came from ... but I will stipulate that it has been amongst us much longer that Christianity itself has ... so who is infringing on whoose human rights?

Good job derailing the thread by bringing that subject up but since you got such a good memory if you want to continue that debate then move it to another thread.  Just how long did you have that video bookmarked?

 

This is a joke, right?  Remember my words on hypocrisy?  Our last discussion on Atheism and Religion you specifically linked up an article on Homosexuality and genetics and now you're dodging this by telling me you don't know anything about that in an Atheist context after previously discussing it under that subject. https://forums.joeuser.com/408056/page/2/#replies  As for the God made them that way let me clarify.  There are numerous variables that lead to homosexuality like Bisphenol A (BPA) or hormonal imbalances while still in the womb such as WW2 babies from pregnant mothers directly exposed to the war over a long period of time.  Those causes are man made.  Also the scientist who did the genetic research is gay himself at a politically charged time so the jury may or may not still be out on that one.  http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/major-producers-to-ditch-bpa-from-packaging-2121837.html

Understand this, homosexuality is behavioral.  If you are in fact genetically predisposed to it then that is no different from being genetically predisposed to alcoholism, another behaviorism.  One does not make you entitled to the behavior of drinking alcohol and the other does not entitle to redefine marriage.

Ok time to play pseudo devil's advocate.  From an atheist point of view the best interest in the state and humanity is not to have gay couples because they would ultimately weaken and cripple the human resource element through abnormal (non)procreation and be forced to resort to extreme medical measures in a hopeful attempt to stabilize itself.  Couples serve to provide for the state and gay couples cannot procreate.  If they somehow manage to do so then they are doing the state a long term disservice by propagating the gay gene making far greater problems for the state, an evolutionary dead end.  Another key problem is the effects of society when the family is redefined.  For many years I myself have seen households where the father is replaced by the state under the welfare system in the USA.  The destructive effects done to the black demographic is particularly negative.  Do we really want to do try another social experiment to redefine marriage and the family on a mass scale?  Complete madness.

The Christian point of view states that all people are children of God and that makes them sacred and valuable regardless of sexual orientation.

on Feb 11, 2012

RogueCaptain
  Do we really want to do try another social experiment to redefine marriage and the family on a mass scale?  Complete madness.

It is complete madness. Homsexual "marriage" is an absurdity. 

This reminds me of Ecclesiastes 1:15, "The perverse are hard to be corrected, and the number of fools is infinite."

 

RogueCaptain
regardless of sexual orientation.

"sexual orientation" is a theory, a marketing theme, devised by homosexual movement  to promote their idea that homosexuality is not a behavior but an "identity".

 

 


on Feb 15, 2012

And, they say these mean, hateful things because--as we all know--we're the haters. Not them. 

Funny how hypocrisy works, isn't it?

 

Here's to making your point! 

http://www.lifesitenews.com/news/homosexual-protesters-call-cardinal-arch-bigot-for-opposing-same-sex-marr?utm_source=LifeSiteNews.com+Daily+Newsletter&utm_campaign=1426490d38-LifeSite

 

CHICAGO, ILLINOIS, February 13, 2012, (LifeSiteNews.com) – As parishioners gathered for Sunday Mass, a radical group of homosexual activists protested outside Chicago’s Holy Name Cathedral, calling Francis Cardinal George the city’s “arch-bigot” for defending marriage.

Carrying placards and spouting slogans on the sidewalk as worshipers entered the sanctuary, members of the Gay Liberation Network instructed Catholics to"give up hate for Lent."

on Feb 17, 2012

RogueCaptain
The atheist teaching being the polar opposite that Evolution and Darwinism is the only truth of homosexuality.
I believe YOU were referring to atheism once again under those GENERAL conditions you folks are want to use. My clip was intended to demonstrate the foolishness of your (most?) religious views of atheism as a religion  ... in your zeal to use that term so casually to describe anything opposing the gospels. I would like your to see YOUR definition of “The Religion of Atheism” you are so want to use … as mine is so foolish. Atheist teachings … I would like to hear about that one too. Maybe you could point out a ‘school’ or ‘church’ where I could go to learn my chosen trade, hahaha. So, atheist teachings are polar opposites of evolution huh … where did you dredge up that bit of nonsense? 

RogueCaptain
The Christian point of view states that all people are children of God and that makes them sacred and valuable regardless of sexual orientation.
Exactly so. But not the Catholic point of view for sure. It is one thing to make a brash statement like this ... but history proves anything but in the actual real world. If you are comfortable taking the position that the Christian hierarchy is guiltless of discriminations and that it is just the hateful outside world that has nothing better to do with itself or its time than to attack the poor church  … you would be mistaken is all. The RCC deserves to fester and rot for the KNOWN crimes against humanity they have committed (and still are) in the name of that merciful and loving god of theirs.

 

on Feb 17, 2012

Lula; disagreement breeds arguments which breeds grudges and end up becoming feuds … I am not going to participate in your feud of homosexual bigotry. Until you are made to understand that homosexuals are people too … you will never be qualified to call yourself one (a person). Your unjust hatred is clear even if your reasons aren’t. When you hate a people as you do … not because of whom they are … but just because you don’t like what they do … well what name would you put in here because it just seems obvious to me? Everything is about you, always just about you, so you can add selfish pride here too. You just don’t get it … how many homosexual Christians there are … to you, it’s just another convenient group to hate. Just ask yourself the difference between what your bible has to say on the subject … and what your Catholicism says … I think it should become apparent at least to another human being anyway.

You hold yourself aloft from the rest of society because you of course have all the answers that have eluded the rest of mankind from the dawn of time.  You have nothing but excuses for the atrocities committed in your GOD’S NAME and by your church, and you have nothing besides condemnation for anything man made or any mortal cause for that matter … because you just know better. You are biased beyond any reasonable need and everything you try to bend to support the impossible is just another sign of your insecurity, your insanity and your betrayal of our living species.

What you do not seem to understand is that there is no place in your fabled heaven for real people, even so you seem to care little if any for those who have to live on this imperfect world. As far as I am concerned, you can take your perfect human rule book , your perfect human (godly) laws, your perfect human interpretations from your perfect human fables and your perfect human religious leadership and stick them where the sun doesn’t shine … because that is where all that kind of shit belongs. Simply, if there really were a true and just god who actually needed people like you to be his human representatives … well then you can stick him in there too because I have no use for such human mockery.

You Lula are a hater because that is all you know how to be. As far as I can see you hate EVERYONE outside your inner circle of religious haters and you have no concern or compassion for the truth of anything ... only for what someone else crammed inside your head for you … your imagination … upon which you base your whole life … and you would foist that folly on everyone else on earth under penalty of eternal damnation. You are as ethically and intellectually dishonest as a person can become. And I suppose Rightwinger is a hater for about the same reasons as pointed out in reply #85.

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